I recently came across a book about a Dutch family's experience during the war. Called "The Occupied Garden" it relates the story of a farmer (soldier) raising a young family during the Occupation and their subsequent emigration to Canada. It is available in Canada at major booksellers and through Amazon.ca.
The web page for the book is:
http://www.theoccupiedgarden.com/index.shtml
It has just been published in the Netherlands as well with the title "De Kinderen van de Tuinder."